Another week at Walk in Love and Njiro

A fairly quiet week at the mill. Most of the kids are doing great, little Emmy who tragically lost her mum last month is slowly getting used to eating. It’s been a struggle but still far better than having the poor little mite in hospital on a drip. Huge thanks to Juliana who has, literally, been a life saver. She has been wet nursing-breast feeding her. Her own son is a week younger and is still being breast fed so she agreed to help Emmy. Juliana gets extra meals and is, literally, saving this little girl’s life. How many mums would do this? Express milk and give in a bottle, yes but to actually breast feed? Juliana you are one in a million and we love you for it.

 

 

 Juma is talking, crawling everywhere and enjoying the taste of real food rather than just uji. He got stuck under the toddlers table but was not in the least bit bothered, just sat there and grinned until he was rescued.  Ema also loves the new tastes but sees no point what so ever in learning to crawl, people bring him toys to play with so why waste energy in going after them? No pics of Ema but will have some next time

 

Booked to go to the coast over the easter week end-thanks Lucy. It’s a long bus journey from Arusha to Tanga, then a dala dala or taxi to Ushongo Beach. Intend to do nothing more strenuous than read a few books, go for a few walks and watch the sun go up and down

Joeli saw the consultant paediatrician on Friday, after being prodded and poked by 3 doctors we were told that he is underweight and small for his age. No sh*t Sherlock, this is why he was taken in the first place. We have to keep a food diary for 5 days writing down everything he eats or drinks and whether or not he has diarrhoea, in 2 weeks time he will have blood tests and a chest xray to rule things out rather than diagnosing, poor little mite, he won’t be happy that day but it needs to be done.

Roof leaking, noticed this after a particularly heavy downpour on Friday night/Saturday morning resulting in a wet bedroom carpet. 1 phone call to the landlord, had to wait in all day for a fundi-workman to assess. He will fix it on Monday. I’m very lucky with having such a good landlord, so far he has fixed any problems which I’ve mentioned

Fridge decided to turn into a freezer and the freezer decided to turn into a cupboard. I decided to replace it with a new one. Electrical items cost more here than they do in the UK, a comparable fridge/freezer would be £40 less and I would not have had to pay £25 for a current stabiliser. Two days after I got it, power cut for 14 hours. Such is life in Tanzania

I have employed a dada to clean on a Saturday morning. Why don’t I clean my own house? Because this woman is struggling, she has a full time job, 2 kids and a disabled husband-no disability living allowance here. She would be embarrassed if I offered her money, this way she gets the money but works for it. When I mentioned it to her, her face lit up. I am paying her peanuts compared to what I’d pay a cleaner in the UK but a decent amount by local standards. She is very happy to be earning a little more each month. I’m paying her mid month so it is not so much of a struggle the week before her salary is due. Women helping women yet again

Finally, the kids all got new (to them) rain jackets and wellies, thanks to a campaign by Lucy Cottee. I bought a set for one of the older kids who does not come to the centre but is in need. OK, they are a little big but they will grow, Joeli's may fit him when he is 10 cos he just doesn't grow!

Next time I'll introduce you to some more of the amazing women who work their bums off for walk in Love xx

Joeli, Adriana and Nasra loving their new gear

Samweli and I in our wellies, he's 9 years old and nearly as tall as me! No I haven't got jodhpurs on, although it does look like it! Beige cut off trousers from the market.

Shite shirts, raising awareness and a long trip to Karatu

 

Shite shirts is a face book  page which  I follow, pics of folk wearing shite shirts, silly but it makes me laugh. I found this one in some donated clothing, it’s so bad that it’s good…..if that makes any sense. It also makes me look huge, which I’m not (anymore!). It made the WiL staff and fellow vollies laugh so it was worth humiliating myself for a few minutes.

 

Saturday was spent at the Mango Tree, a local bar, raising awareness of Walk in Love and showing folk what the tailors make, After expenses we did make some money but, more importantly, brochures were handed out and people are aware of who and where we are and what we do. Hopefully we’ll be doing more of these events in the coming months

 

Monday saw me at a local private clinic with little Joeli, taking him for a blood test, less traumatic than the government one where he would have had to wait and get very distressed. His iron level has improved but he has lost weight and  now has pneumonia. Next stop is Dr Matthews, a paediatrician at a private hospital

Tuesday bought a 2 ½ hour trip out to Karatu to see Mama Teddy and the girls. She was drunk, Teddy is supposedly at her sister’s in Arusha but Irene was there. She appeared to remember me and loved the biscuits which I’d baked for her. She looked scruffy and dirty but seemed healthy, we bought dry goods, vegetables, dried fish and paid the rent for 2 months. Is this family viable? Time will tell, we will increase the frequency of the visits and monitor the family closely. There is a ‘brother’ of mama Teddy on the scene and he has promised to keep an eye on this little family. These little girls deserve so much more I could have posted a sweet picture of Irene, but she pulls such funny faces that I decided to include this one

 

Finally this week we said goodbye to Lucy C at Shanga restaurant in Arusha, a fellow volunteer and great supporter of Walk in Love. This is the down side of vollie work-getting to know folk then having to say goodbye. She is a shining example of the youth of today, at 21 years old she has been acting director whilst the boss is in the States and has worked her socks off over the past 3 months. We always hear the bad things about the younger generation in the UK-getting drunk, work shy etc etc but what about the Lucys of this generation? They don’t make the headlines in the national press, although they should. Thanks to her one little girl’s life has been changed, she saw a need, raised awareness now 11 year old Eleanezer has a future. Lucy you are very much loved and will be missed. Sorry about embarrassing you Lucy, but credit should be given where it's due

I wonder what next week will bring? Rain for sure x

More Girl Power-sorry boys

Introducing Agnes, the amazing cook at Walk in Love. Everyday she makes porridge for the kids, chai for the workers, lunch for more than 30 people, prepares fruit for the kids, more porridge and snacks for the cause for concern kids, all on 2 charcoal stoves, she also goes to market to buy the fresh vegetables, some weekly, some daily. Plus she has to put up with an off beat volunteer (me!)  telling her that I’m going to give the small babies piri-piri-chilli sauce. Don’t worry, I’m not. She does all of this for around £60 per month. Her grand daughter attends the centre so that her daughter can work. The world is a better place with Agnes in it. The pic shows Agnes with the last of the mangoes from the tree in my garden, the majority were taken to the centre for the children, although I have eaten a fair few myself!

 

Heaven is the 11 year old daughter of a lady who I worked with at the baby home several years ago. I knew that mum had it tough but it has only recently dawned on me how tough. She is determined that Heaven should have a good education so sends her to an English Medium School rather than to a government school. By the time she has paid the fees and her rent she is left with less than £20 per month to cover everything including bills, school uniform and food. In January I took over paying  Heaven’s school fees, 2 months later both mum and daughter look healthier, happier and have put on weight. Obviously they were cutting back on food to make ends meet. Mum states that by the end of this month she will be out of debt for the first time in years and will be able to save a little from April. No family tax credit here if you are on a low wage. Debt is crippling no matter what country you live in but at least in the UK education and healthcare are, mostly, free at the point of need and we have a reasonable social welfare system.

 

Marie moved into her new home on Sunday. She went to visit the original room which I’d paid the deposit on but discovered that the roof leaked and she was not standing for it. She demanded and got a refund and found another room within budget, she is determined to pay me back the money which I’ve loaned her within 2 months and has plans on how she can increase her income. Thanks to Joan Hamer and other kind people her home has all that she needs for now, it’s simple but it’s her own front door. I’ll update this blog when I hear any news, maybe she’ll be the first McDonald’s franchisee in Arusha? Hope not, the food here is much better than that!

 

Some wonderful American ladies visited the centre and gave us rice, lentils and many bags of clothes and bedding. Some were given to the workers, others we saved for people in need who visit the centre. Here are some pics of Myasa and Chiku modelling their clothes. Yet another story of women helping women less fortunate than themselves. Asante Sana

 

First swhaili lesson this week, boy have I got a lot to learn, even have homework to do. I can tell someone that I am a nurse  that I live in Njiro but I still don’t know what 12 is! Oh and I know which is the women’s toilet now-preventing any potentially embarrassing situations

Until next week, this is Dolly saying, or rather trying to say, kwa heri

 

 

Girl (woman) Power

                                                      Girl (Woman) Power
This has been a big week for the girls. Mama Angel came to the centre because she had not eaten all day and was worried that her milk would dry up. She was given money for food and a 10,000 shilling loan to start a vegetable business. 2 weeks later that 10,000 is 30,000 enabling her to buy more vegetables, Angel is being cared for at the centre and mama comes frequently to feed her. At this rate we will be borrowing money from Mama Angel, Go Girl!

Mama Amina has 2 children at the centre, she makes mandazi for a living-doughnuts and keeps an eye on a shop which the director of Walk in Love has rented enabling 7 of the workers from the centre to sell items, thus increasing their income. Hopefully it will be self funding within the next few months. The shop will be up and running shortly. Thank you Mama Amina, she has been helped and in return is helping others.

A very special lady has donated money to have the outside toilet refurbished-much needed. It is now tiled, has a pipe to take away the smell and has a new porcelain liner, much to the joy of the children and workers. Thank you VSL. With the money left over I bought mosquito nets for the bunk beds and the bunk cots, a bucket for the changing area and 2 pairs of trainers for 2 brothers who are very much in need. Another lady helping others. THANK YOU so very, very much

 

On Saturday Marie and I went to Tengeru market to buy things for her new room, she is renting a room near the centre and a 20 minute walk from work. the market was hectic but we got some bargains-mtumba (2nd hand) blanket, new plates and cutlery. Thank you JOAN HAMER-got to shout cos she's a bit mutton jeff-for the ££ to buy the items.Big problem, on returning home we realised that neither of us had our keys, Doh! My housemate, Inge, had gone out leaving us with a problem. The sun was shining so I went to the local duka, bought soap and set about washing the towels, sheets and blanket in a bucket. After some hunting around, I saw my key on my bed, Marie managed to hook it with a stick and we got into the house. Lessons learned 1) Always check that I have my key 2) leave my room more secure 3) Leave a spare key with a friend
This has been a great week for women helping women, some local, others thousands of miles away. This is very much what Walk in love is all about
Until next time, I'm off to work but not before I check that I have my key x

Visa oh visa wherefore art thou?

Still no news on my 2 year visa so I’m having to fork out for another 3 month one just to be legal. I can officially work with that visa so I don’t have to keep watching the gate at the centre

We welcomed baby Angel to the walk in Love family. Her mum came to the centre in tears, she had not eaten and was worried that her milk would dry up. She was given money for food and a loan to set up a business selling vegetables. Within a few days she had fund a place to put her stand and her business is now up and running, no tears now but smiles all the way. Angel is as cute as a button but is very demanding, hates to be put down and screams like a banshee when she is.

Another mama  has been given a loan to sell cooked maize, she is a single mum, living in one room. Neema, our social worker, will check up regularly to ensure that she is selling and is able to repay the loan.

Both of our baby boys have teeth! Juma got his a couple of weeks ago and Ema, who I call Peanut, got his in the past 2 days (Feb 23^rd) Those boys are so chilled, Juma dances when music comes in Ema just looks and thing’ ok it’s music, so what?’ Ema does this with everything, if he had been on the Magic Roundabout-a sixties kid’s programme, he would have been Dylan, the hippy rabbit. How lucky am I to be around these kids?

We were very fortunate to be given a donation to buy toys and changing mats, both desperately needed so there is much laughter, and a few spills, at the centre.

Little Joeli still gives me sleepless nights, if I was younger and staying for 10 years+ then I would foster him but I have to be realistic. It would be wrong to take him for 4 years then pass him on to someone else. All I can do is help in a small way to make his little life better. We now have him on plumpynut, a nutritional supplement for the malnourished, we will add this to his porridge and to his food. There are 500 calories in a packet, so, with his normal food and this, he should start to gain weight. Neema has made a home visit and there is some cause for concern but there is also hope, with education and frequent checks he may be able to stay with his grandmother.

Aubree, the boss, has gone home to America to see her family, to raise funds and awareness and to sell some of the items made by the tailors. Fingers crossed that it goes well.

I held the first 1^st aid workshop at my house this w/e for 7 of the workers, what a hoot, they took the micky out of me mercilessly but they named the resus baby Aubree. We now have 7 wonderful women who could, if the situation arose, have a good stab at saving a person’s life. They certainly won’t be putting anything other than clean water on a burn. Certificates will be printed and presented soon, well worth the aching limbs and cooking a well deserved lunch for them all AND they took some of my many mangoes home, thank you to Marie who helped cook lunch.

Last but not least.Marie has a job!!!! She is going to be house girl for the manager of a baby home. Thanks to 2 very generous friends in the UK we will be able to hit the market on Saturday to buy her the things she needs to set up home-charcoal stove, blanket, mozzie net, plates, cutlery chapatti board, there will also be enough money for her 3 months rent. Marie knows how to make the shillings go far so I’m expecting to come home heavy laden.
Pics show Glori attempting to resuscitate Madriana, Neema, the social worker with Mama Angel at her veg stand my 7 wonderful 1st aiders-Madriana, Myasa, Jackie, Glori, Juliana-peanut's mum, Mwanisha and Aneth

What a week, hope next week is a little quieter xx

The rains have come

The rains have arrived early, much needed because the dust is everywhere, the ground is rock solid and the crops were fading. Now I see the kids in tights, long trousers, hats-just like autumn in the UK except that it isn't cold just very wet. It doesn't rain all day but when it does it's like a waterfall. We have deep rain gullies by the side of the roads but the side roads are not tarmacked leading to mud everywhere. Not nice being on the dalla dallas with mud on the floor and everyone steaming, fortunately my complex has gravel so no mud in the house.
Rehema came to my house to learn mzungu cooking, 5 hours later we had made pancakes 2 ways, biscuits, banana bread, burgers, meat balls, spaghetti sauce, bean burgers and fish cakes. the pic shows her proudly showing off her endeavours
Met a lovely lady at the centre. Marie is divorced, her 2 kids live with their grandmother because she cannot afford to have them with her. She has nothing, knocked on some doors, found a nice lady who offered her a place to sleep for a few days and told about the walk in love centre. She came to see if we could help her. Initially discussed a loan to pay the 3 months rent up front to rent her own place then discussed a business. She thinks that she could sell second hand clothes but doesn't have the capital to buy any, she has no furniture but said that she could put cardboard on the floor to sleep on. Lucy and Aubree made some calls, Rehema knows the lady who was kind enough to offer her a place to stay for a few days, end result is that she can stay with this lady for longer at a rent of 10,000 shillings per month-£4, Walk in Love will pay this for the first month, clothes have been scrounged for her to start a business. She didn't come looking for a hand out just a hand to help her get up from where she is. What a lady, we could learn a lot from her. There may be more news in the next blog about her. Watch this space.
Bravon and the 2 Joshuas started school this week. It's an early start for them, 2 dalla dallas and a 20 minute walk to get them there but it's worth it. I went to pick them up and they were chatting the whole way back to the centre. They only go in the mornings as they are in the lower classes. The school is great and may well be the school of choice for all sponsored children at the centre. It's a great way for them to start their education
Mo is back to his pre illness weight, still small for his age so he's being given extras, this is obviously working as he has gained, I'd like to see him gain a couple of kilos but, as they say here, pole pole-slowly slowly.
Biscuit day to day courtesy of my kitchen tried to persuade the twins to give me bite of theirs but they were having none of it, laughed and hid them. One put it under her arm, the other laughed and turned away. Oh well, helps me keep to my diet.
Retirement is anything but boring, should have done it years ago but I was too young.
Wonder what the next week will bring? What ever it is you will read about it here
Thanks for taking the time to read dolly's drival, I do appreciate it.

hey ho it's NOT off to work I go

Hey Ho it’s NOT off to work I go

My visa has still not come through which means I can not, officially, work. If immigration check and discover that I do not have the right visa then it’s a fine for me and another for Walk in Love-$600 each, just not worth it. I still go to the centre daily but am extra vigilant when the gates open BUT, on the upside I am now a pensioner WITH a pension. It was paid almost a month late but at last I’m getting and spending it.

Weighed the kids again this week, no problems I just wish that Joeli would grow, now that the rains have come maybe I should plant him next to my tomato plants, they are thriving. Despite good, nutritious food, the little man is still in single figures-in kilos that is, he’s an active, cheeky chap, just doesn’t grow!

New walk in lover, Mary’s mum does laundry for local people, she was leaving Mary home alone so that she could work. Mary’s not too happy about it, I met them at the chapatti stand and, whilst she was happy to hold my hand all the way to the centre, when it came to going in, she was having none of it and ran past. She settles down after a few minutes of protest crying and loves playing with the other kids. The old hands-Ramson, Adriana and Amina are really good to her bringing her toys, jabbering away in swahili and holding her hand

Word seems to be getting around and we are having women, almost daily, asking for help. Some seem to see the centre as a place where they can get their kids into a good school-most of the kids are sponsored, when they are ready for school this money then transfers to school fees. This is not what we are about. The centre provides day care to enable to the women to work and thus provide for their children. We have made 2 small loans to women to start up businesses, 1 to sell cooked maize, the other to sell vegetables. They are given 2 months grace then have to start repaying the loan, which is interest free. Micro finance has proven to be extremely successful world wide, the amounts loaned are, initially, quite small-£5-£25, this is enough to start up a small business. Once the woman has proved that the business is successful, that she can repay the loan, then she could ask for more to pay, for example, school fees.

 Marie is a divorced mum who walked away from the marriage with nothing. the kids live with her mum, she was renting a room from a local lady who expected her to clean, care for her children and sell her vegetables all day leaving little time for Marie to try to sell her clothing, despite having received 1 months rent from Walk in Love. After some discussion Marie has moved into my spare room in exchange for keeping the house clean and teaching me how to cook Tanzanian food-good exchange of work as I hate cleaning!. When she starts to earn money from her clothing business she will contribute towards food. The arrangement is until the end of March, in that time she should be able to save the money needed for the deposit on her own place. It will be an interesting experience as she has never used an electric cooker before, although she can speak some English, a fact she kept well hidden when interviewed by Lucy and Neema the new social worker. Lucy, will make an appeal for house hold items for her as she, literally, has nothing. Marie, you are welcome to share my house and I am glad that I can do this small thing to help you re-establish your life.

Marie receives her key, Juma is one happy baby and is starting to crawl, balloon fun on a rainy day

 More on Marie next time, until then, thanks for reading dollys drival